The right one.
Chosen for you.
Private matchmaking for accomplished men.
Exceptionally beautiful, intelligent women, personally selected and vetted by Lily Chystofat.
Every introduction made for you alone, in complete confidence.
Four steps. Lily handles every one.
Private consultation
Two hours with Lily: your life, your standards, and what you truly want. Then a discreet check of identity, background, marital status and means.
Your selection
Up to five women chosen for you, each with Lily's portrait of why she fits.
She says yes
Lily introduces you to her. When she agrees to meet, she records a short personal video for you.
Your first date
Lily plans a memorable first date and speaks with you both afterwards.
Beauty is the entry point. Not the whole story.
Twelve years of judging beauty professionally. Every woman Lily accepts meets the same exacting standard, and then Lily looks closer: at her mind, her warmth and her values.
Face
Natural, harmonious features. Beauty that holds up in daylight, without filters.
Figure and posture
A graceful, cared-for figure, and the way she carries herself.
Presence
How she walks into a room, and how the room turns to her.
Style and poise
Grooming, taste and social ease, at a black-tie gala or a family dinner.
Mind
Education, curiosity, and a conversation you will want to continue.
Heart
Warmth, good values, and a sincere wish for a relationship.
Some come from the modeling world. Many do not.
They are students, professionals and creatives, with careers and lives of their own. What they share is real beauty and real substance.
You'll see real faces in your consultation.
Their photos are never public. Lily shows them to you in person, with each woman's consent.
Illustrative examples. Real profiles are shown only in your consultation, with each woman's consent. Nothing is sent, nothing can be saved.
See real profiles in your consultationNot a photo and a paragraph. A story.
Lily sends you a short personal note. Her full story, photos and video open only in your private portal, so nothing about her can ever be forwarded.
Sofia
Personally vetted by LilyLily's view
A rare combination: striking beauty and a calm, grounded mind. She is a builder, not a dreamer. Once she chooses a man, she builds a home and a life around him. She is at her best with a man who leads, but also listens.
LilyHer story
She is the kind of beautiful you notice from across a room and remember long after: long chestnut hair, grey-green eyes and the posture of someone who grew up dancing. In a black dress at a gala she turns heads; on a Sunday morning in a cashmere sweater, with no make-up at all, she is even lovelier. But what stays with you is her laugh, which always arrives a second before you expect it.
Sofia grew up between Kyiv and Paris and studied architecture. Today she designs homes in Manhattan for clients who expect perfection, and she delivers it calmly, on time, and usually with a better idea than the one they came with. She is ambitious, yet she will tell you her proudest project is the Sunday lunch she hosts for her family every week.
She skis, swims in the sea as late into October as she can, and knows a small hidden restaurant in every city she has visited. She reads on planes, collects old maps, and dreams of watching the northern lights from a cabin in Norway, with someone who would rather be there than anywhere else.
In love she is loyal and attentive, and she shows it with care and time rather than words.
Seeking
A man who has built a full, successful life and still has room in it for someone. Confident without arrogance, curious about the world and generous with his time. Someone who can plan a spontaneous weekend in Paris and enjoy a quiet evening at home just as much, and who would like a family one day.
Why I thought of you
Written for you personally after your consultation: why I believe the two of you fit, and what to talk about at your first dinner.
If you'd like to meet her, tell me and I'll arrange everything. Lily
Sample profile. Name and details are illustrative.
She knows beauty professionally. And she knows what makes a couple last.
For twelve years Lily Chystofat has worked with exceptional women: as the owner of a model agency, as the founder of Miss Crimea, and as the founder and owner of Miss Yalta and Supermodel of Ukraine. She has prepared many young women for the stage and for life: poise, presentation, etiquette and confidence. That is where her eye comes from. She judges beauty precisely, and in one conversation she can tell who a woman really is.
For the last five years she has lived in New York, traveled constantly across the US and Europe, and worked with couples on relationship compatibility. She keeps learning from leading couples therapists in the US, and she created a program for women, now popular across America, on building a marriage of real quality and keeping the passion alive. Her Leelu Compatibility Method, developed over ten years, looks past the photograph to what makes two people last: shared values, emotional fit, easy conversation and real chemistry.
A year of Lily's search.
Every membership runs for twelve months: Lily's Fit read, selections in your private portal, her personal presentation to each woman, a video hello from every woman who says yes, dates designed by Lily and her guidance after each one. Lily accepts no more than 12 members a year.
Signature
- Women from Lily's network, including European women while they are in the US
- Up to 2 dates a month
- Two-selection promise
Private Search
- Lily's network plus active recruiting for you
- Access to new women right after Retained Search members
- Up to 3 dates a month
- Couple support for your first 3 months together
- Two-selection promise
Retained Search
- Recruiting dedicated to you
- First Look: every new woman who fits is shown to you first
- Up to 4 dates a month
- Couple support for your first 6 months together
- One Retained Search member per city
Signature and Private Search are paid on signing; Retained Search, half on signing and half after three months. Date expenses are paid by you directly; Lily's planning is included.
Begin with a private conversation.
Your first consultation is free. The women, the details and your plan: in a private conversation with Lily Chystofat, in person or by video.
Request a private consultationConfidential. Lily replies personally within 24 hours.